"Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there, because you can't remember a time in your life when it wasn't. But then one day you feel something else, something that feels wrong, only because it's so unfamiliar. And in that moment you realize you're happy."

In 2010, do not expect. Do not make resolutions that you yourself know will never be followed. Do not do things you know you will regret. Always secure your relationship with that one person you always run up to when you feel like shit. Do not make the same mistake twice. Keep a keen eye on your old friends, reconnect with them. Learn how to be independent and accept the fact that this life runs with acceptance. Move on.

Do not say you will never do this again or do that. Instead, just say that this year, you will have the most awesome fun you will ever have.

...and more to come. Happy Holidays, beautiful people. :)